Reality Bites
May 26th, 2009
We’re all addicted to them. We just can’t help ourselves, plus there’s not much else on television anymore. Reality Shows in the last ten plus years have saturated our television sets, but why?
Has our society changed so much that fictional entertainment is just useless? It seems that we want what’s ‘true’, ‘real’ and raw no matter what the cost. We want to want to watch people winning and loosing. We watch people facing the everyday odd and ridiculous of life in the attempt to escape our own lives in the name of entertainment. But what good has really come from reality TV?
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Show |
Positive |
Negative |
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American Idol |
Hidden Talent found |
Delusions of grandeur |
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Survivor |
Money for winner |
Tax Evasion, The harsh survival tactics humans are capable of |
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Real Housewives |
Simple entertainment |
How money rules, and gives you’re the right to do or act anyway you want |
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The Simple Life |
Simple entertainment |
Destroyed a friendship |
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The Newlyweds |
Simple entertainment |
Divorce, Delusions of what life is supposed to be like |
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The Apprentice |
Amazing opportunities for contestants |
Unrealistic expectations for young businessmen and women in the workforce |
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Jon & Kate Plus 8 |
A perspective on a unique family |
Tabloid invasion creating tensions in marriage |
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Amazing race |
Worldly perspective |
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Wife Swap |
An appreciation for Moms |
Disrespect for other ideas and lifestyles |
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Project Runway |
Great publicity and money for winners |
Delusions of grandeur |
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My Super Sweet Sixteen |
Simple entertainment |
‘The world centers around me’ mentality for teens |
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Dancing with the Stars |
Shown and appreciation for ballroom dancing as a sport and art form |
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Biggest Loser |
Being healthy and exercise and bring amazing results if you put forth the effort |
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Seriously, do you think the positives out way the negatives? Are these the values that we want to be teaching the next generation? Not even that there’s not even good ideas to put into our own heads.
It’s sad that this style of television has infiltrated our living rooms. Even in our ‘desire’ not to be lied to or to be shown the real stuff, reality TV is full of lies. The Editing floor cuts and paste’s footage to create drama and media interest. You see it in the captions at the end of some programs that the production team makes the final decision. So in some of the competitions some of those that deserve to be there to the end are cut, just for dramatic effect. Is that real? No it’s marketing. So don’t think that reality TV is giving it to you as is and unbiased, because that is a lie which makes ‘reality TV’ just as fake as any other show on TV.
These comments do come on the heals of the Jon and Kate Plus 8 controversy or whatever you want to call it, because my heart aches for that family. Their lives have changed and been contorted for our entertainment. Sure they’ve received many benefits from the show, but the cost is exponential, if divorce is now a word/action on the table.
In Monday night’s premier of the new season Jon said, ‘Life is about choices’, and I totally agree. But now is the time for the hardest choices of their lives. Because love is a choice, a selfless decision made everyday. Keeping a family together is a choice. Being brave enough to seek help/counseling is a choice.
I just hope ‘reality’ TV hasn’t distorted true family values or the world our children will live in will be a sad one.









